Kelvin Mwangi, popularly known as Shaniqwa, has recently shared the emotional turmoil he faced after his baby mama, Naomi, left him and their son.
The cross-dressing influencer and former KTN personality opened up about the pain of abandonment during a candid interview, eliciting mixed reactions on social media.
The Pain of Abandonment
In a heartfelt discussion, Shaniqwa recounted how Naomi’s departure affected him deeply.
One thing I’ll say is that I did not deserve it, Every person has their faults. I am not an angel, but I did not deserve it. My son did not deserve it
Shaniqwa
His vulnerability resonated with many viewers as he reflected on the difficult times he endured as a single father.
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Shaniqwa revealed that he nearly succumbed to despair, stating,
I went through hell. I almost took my own life. I was seeing my walls crumbling
Shaniqwa
Despite the pain, he acknowledged that he had ignored several red flags in their relationship.
She got those midnight calls after I organised a job for her. I lost my job at KTN, and she was the richer one
Shaniqwa
Shaniqwa opened up about specific incidents that raised concerns in his mind. He recalled a particularly painful moment on their son’s first birthday in 2020 when Naomi left for Ruiru after receiving a call.
I wondered why she picked that day, I told her not to go but eventually allowed her as she seemed restless
Shaniqwa
This moment marked a turning point in their relationship and ultimately contributed to the breakdown of their family unit.
Public Reactions
The interview sparked varied reactions online, with many Kenyans weighing in on Shaniqwa’s situation. Comments ranged from empathy to criticism, with some users expressing solidarity while others pointed out that similar situations occur frequently in relationships. One commenter noted,
You’re the father, so I don’t see any big deal
while another remarked,
Interesting seeing this perspective from men.
Despite the heartbreak, Shaniqwa remains focused on his role as a father and influencer. He hopes to use his experience to encourage others facing similar challenges.
As Shaniqwa continues to navigate life as a single parent, he emphasizes the need for open conversations about mental health and emotional well-being.
